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Sex, the feeling that drives most of the humans in the world. I'm always wondering why the society is not dared to speak about this topic frankly or openly. So I’m just scribbling my thoughts on this blogger.
I don’t feel there is nothing wrong in sharing their opinion on sex. If it is that much bad to think or speak about, then why God created this ugly thing with his creations. Animals never ashamed of having sex with its liked ones. We are also animals in one or other form isn't it?. Then why we have it in a closed room in the name of culture, civilization and marriage?. I always think of the psychological phenomenon that one who is weaker wants to be in a safer side always. Like that one psycho analyst said that those who is afraid of his sexual postures (unable to full fill his partners sexual desires) and geographical structures (the body) of others wants to be in a safer side i.e. he wants to have his partner with him always in the name of marriage and culture.
I always wonder why the virginity is always tied up with the female gender. Does a man doesn't have that "Virginity" with him. Is that really associated with the K**t and not with P***s. If a girl sleeps with a guy other than his husband then its supposed to be a cultural damage and if it is before her marriage then its a question of her virginity. Some of the myths say (Hindu Myth) that even if she thinks of another guy then she is equivalent to having sex with the guy. She loses her virginity with her thoughts. Is that the same in the case of a guy? The Guy can be with any number of girls or have any number of wives (I’m talking in the period where this cultural and civilization revolution prevails among the people in the higher positions).
But now the time is changed. Even though the people expect their wives to be loyal to them, the rule breaks on both the sides. He is having the sex with the girl next door without the knowledge of his wife and she is having with the guy next door when he is not around and they pretend like they are loyal to each other. Is that the people say the so called civilization and culture? The pre marital sex is also prevalent in some of the cities and towns. Those who don’t have the chance to that that will watch all sort of exotic nonsense and they corrupt their mind. 24 X 7 they think of nothing other than sex. Some pretend like they not at all interested in talking or seeing the porn things but in their sub conscious, they also thinking of the same. Psycho analysis says that it’s a negative way of expressing their thoughts. Humans can express their thoughts in two ways 1. As they thought. 2. Opposite of what they think .They even doesn’t know that they have an attraction towards it.
Some of the people are satisfied with their marriage relationships as their ego to maintain their lust is very low. They believe in a false belief that if any thing they broke it is a cultural damage and they will be out of society. But who builds the society? The same humans with some generation ahead. But what they formed is a fake one its not the real society. They don’t really care about the human emotions and values. They simply exist because their fore fathers told to maintain it and no body even question it. It’s a mind is shaped with the false notions, beliefs and trusts starting from the child in the womb. So the humans don’t even know which one is real and which one is not real. I remember the Matrix movie that how they live in the matrix and the real world without even knowing that the real world exists.
People always watch incidents (either it may be a movie or a real time incident) and doesn’t even think abut why is that happened so. They took all the incidents for granted as long as their ego and emotions doesn’t hurt. But when it hurts they seriously look into the issue as why this has happened only to me. He started comparing with other people.
Is this a civilized and a cultured person’s act? Does a dog can compare with the other dog that s/he is more beautiful, having more power, money etc? The why the civilization and culture brings this mentality to humans? Or is this the result of the sixth sense that God had gifted to humans?
Some of the people don’t even think the feelings, emotions and relationships in other perspective. They believe what their parents believe. And this continues from generations to generations. Any questions will lead to the name that he is not a respective child like others. I think the parents should be proud that he does the job where no body in the majority of the society is doing. All the majority of the people’s mind set is fixed starting from the child hood. For instance, if somebody tells that there is nothing wrong in having sex with whom you like, then it is considered to be a cultural break. He is considered as an animal.
I remember one debate. In that one person talks about civilization, he said that if Adam and Eve were our fathers and we are their descendants then how the family tree is grown. How the children of Adam and Eve have children as they are brother and sister and you are not supposed to touch a sister. In that they argued, there is no civilization at that stage so you can have sex with any body you want, like the animals. So we lived like every other animals in the earth and does this sexual repression doesn’t seem like a block in the modern civilization? In some culture they can marry the father way girls (sister relation) and in other customs they marry the mother way girls (cousin relation). So if a person migrates from one civilization to other civilization does he change his customs? Or does he have the courage to disbelieve his good old child hood behaviors and manners and adapt to the modern culture?
We can see the various side effects of the sexual repression. Of course I can accept the fact that it is because of the sexual repression only man has become this much advanced and he has made a move in the technology (modern psychoanalysis). It is because of this only man has achieved these much greater heights. Or else he will remain as an animal as other animals. But what are the side effects. Egoism, power, money, societal status, creed, lust etc. When does all these man made characters will disappear form the human minds? Now the suppression is beyond the human control. That’s why they started doing all the nonsense like masturbation, extra and premarital sex. If this grows like this then it will attain the same state as the world exists before and we are all doing the same thing in the name of modern civilization and culture.
I don’t feel there is nothing wrong in sharing their opinion on sex. If it is that much bad to think or speak about, then why God created this ugly thing with his creations. Animals never ashamed of having sex with its liked ones. We are also animals in one or other form isn't it?. Then why we have it in a closed room in the name of culture, civilization and marriage?. I always think of the psychological phenomenon that one who is weaker wants to be in a safer side always. Like that one psycho analyst said that those who is afraid of his sexual postures (unable to full fill his partners sexual desires) and geographical structures (the body) of others wants to be in a safer side i.e. he wants to have his partner with him always in the name of marriage and culture.
I always wonder why the virginity is always tied up with the female gender. Does a man doesn't have that "Virginity" with him. Is that really associated with the K**t and not with P***s. If a girl sleeps with a guy other than his husband then its supposed to be a cultural damage and if it is before her marriage then its a question of her virginity. Some of the myths say (Hindu Myth) that even if she thinks of another guy then she is equivalent to having sex with the guy. She loses her virginity with her thoughts. Is that the same in the case of a guy? The Guy can be with any number of girls or have any number of wives (I’m talking in the period where this cultural and civilization revolution prevails among the people in the higher positions).
But now the time is changed. Even though the people expect their wives to be loyal to them, the rule breaks on both the sides. He is having the sex with the girl next door without the knowledge of his wife and she is having with the guy next door when he is not around and they pretend like they are loyal to each other. Is that the people say the so called civilization and culture? The pre marital sex is also prevalent in some of the cities and towns. Those who don’t have the chance to that that will watch all sort of exotic nonsense and they corrupt their mind. 24 X 7 they think of nothing other than sex. Some pretend like they not at all interested in talking or seeing the porn things but in their sub conscious, they also thinking of the same. Psycho analysis says that it’s a negative way of expressing their thoughts. Humans can express their thoughts in two ways 1. As they thought. 2. Opposite of what they think .They even doesn’t know that they have an attraction towards it.
Some of the people are satisfied with their marriage relationships as their ego to maintain their lust is very low. They believe in a false belief that if any thing they broke it is a cultural damage and they will be out of society. But who builds the society? The same humans with some generation ahead. But what they formed is a fake one its not the real society. They don’t really care about the human emotions and values. They simply exist because their fore fathers told to maintain it and no body even question it. It’s a mind is shaped with the false notions, beliefs and trusts starting from the child in the womb. So the humans don’t even know which one is real and which one is not real. I remember the Matrix movie that how they live in the matrix and the real world without even knowing that the real world exists.
People always watch incidents (either it may be a movie or a real time incident) and doesn’t even think abut why is that happened so. They took all the incidents for granted as long as their ego and emotions doesn’t hurt. But when it hurts they seriously look into the issue as why this has happened only to me. He started comparing with other people.
Is this a civilized and a cultured person’s act? Does a dog can compare with the other dog that s/he is more beautiful, having more power, money etc? The why the civilization and culture brings this mentality to humans? Or is this the result of the sixth sense that God had gifted to humans?
Some of the people don’t even think the feelings, emotions and relationships in other perspective. They believe what their parents believe. And this continues from generations to generations. Any questions will lead to the name that he is not a respective child like others. I think the parents should be proud that he does the job where no body in the majority of the society is doing. All the majority of the people’s mind set is fixed starting from the child hood. For instance, if somebody tells that there is nothing wrong in having sex with whom you like, then it is considered to be a cultural break. He is considered as an animal.
I remember one debate. In that one person talks about civilization, he said that if Adam and Eve were our fathers and we are their descendants then how the family tree is grown. How the children of Adam and Eve have children as they are brother and sister and you are not supposed to touch a sister. In that they argued, there is no civilization at that stage so you can have sex with any body you want, like the animals. So we lived like every other animals in the earth and does this sexual repression doesn’t seem like a block in the modern civilization? In some culture they can marry the father way girls (sister relation) and in other customs they marry the mother way girls (cousin relation). So if a person migrates from one civilization to other civilization does he change his customs? Or does he have the courage to disbelieve his good old child hood behaviors and manners and adapt to the modern culture?
We can see the various side effects of the sexual repression. Of course I can accept the fact that it is because of the sexual repression only man has become this much advanced and he has made a move in the technology (modern psychoanalysis). It is because of this only man has achieved these much greater heights. Or else he will remain as an animal as other animals. But what are the side effects. Egoism, power, money, societal status, creed, lust etc. When does all these man made characters will disappear form the human minds? Now the suppression is beyond the human control. That’s why they started doing all the nonsense like masturbation, extra and premarital sex. If this grows like this then it will attain the same state as the world exists before and we are all doing the same thing in the name of modern civilization and culture.
posted by Saravanan at 11:57 AM
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